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Let’s Get Socialized!

March 9, 2010

Banana Bread Beer Originally uploaded by Schlüsselbein2007

by Sarah Michele Ford

Socialization. That’s what you do when you go out with your friends on a Friday night, maybe drinking some beers, right?

Wrong. When you go out with your friends on Friday night, with or without the benefit of adult beverages, you’re socializing, having a social life.

But hold up a minute – maybe that’s not so wrong after all. Maybe by going out with your friends on Friday night you are engaging in socialization. Maybe you are being socialized by your friends and maybe your friends are socializing you.

Socialization is, after all, the process or learning to live within your culture. It’s learning the norms and the values, the expectations of interactions. It’s learning the institutions and the organizations and how you should to relate to those larger social structures.

So if you go to a new bar, or you meet new people, or you go to your first curling match, you will find yourself being socialized into that new setting. Sociologists call this process of learning new norms and values resocialization, and it’s something that happens throughout our lives.

Next time you go out to socialize with your friends, ask yourself: am I having a social life, or am I engaging in socialization?

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3 comments

  1. So what your saying is that when we are already in a group and are socializing with them you are having a social life because you already know the norms and expectations of the group. In new social settings where you do not know the norms or expectations you are being socialized into the group.


    • In BOTH circumstances you’re “having a social life” – but in only one of them are you being resocialized. You could make an argument, though, that even when we’re in “old” social settings, we are undergoing secondary socialization – the norms are being reinforced.


      • is the secondary socialization considered resocialization? Because groups change and diffrent situations impact the setting of the socialization.



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