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Homosexuality: more than just preference

February 26, 2010

Posted by: Chad M. Gesser

Twitter: @profgesser

Email: chad.gesser@kctcs.edu

The issues that gays face go well beyond social acceptance of their sexual preference.  Heterosexuals certainly do not recognize the advantages that they reap in a culture that is deeply rooted in heterosexuality.

The Heterosexuality Questionnaire was developed by Martin Rochlin, Ph.D., in 1977.  While it certainly appears humorous to the average heterosexual reader, a closer examination can help one examine the social implications of a heterosexual society, particularly if you’re homosexual.

1.               What do you think caused your heterosexuality?

2.               When and how did you decide that you were a heterosexual?

3.               Is it possible that your heterosexuality is just a phase that you may grow out of?

4.               Is it possible your heterosexuality stems from a neurotic fear of others of the same sex?

5.               If you’ve never slept with a person of the same sex, is it possible that all you need is a good gay or lesbian lover?

6.               To whom have you disclosed your heterosexual tendencies? How did he or she react?

7.               Why do you heterosexuals feel compelled to seduce others into your life-style?

8.               Why do you insist on flaunting your heterosexuality? Why can’t you just be what you are and keep quiet about it?

9.               Would you want your children to be heterosexual knowing the problems that they’d face?

10.             A disproportionate majority of child molesters are heterosexual. Do you consider it safe to expose your children to heterosexual teachers?

11.             With all the societal support marriage receives, the divorce rate is spiraling. Why are there so few stable relationships among heterosexuals?

12.             Why do heterosexuals place so much emphasis on sex?

13.             Considering the menace of overpopulation, how could the human race survive if everyone were heterosexual like you?

14.             Could you trust a heterosexual therapist to be objective? Don’t you fear (s)he might be inclined to influence you in the direction of her/his own leanings?

15.             How can you become a whole person if you limit yourself to compulsive, exclusive heterosexuality, and fail to develop you natural, healthy homosexual potential?

16.             There seem to be very few happy heterosexuals. Techniques have been developed that might enable you to change if you really want to. Have you considered trying aversion therapy?

For most heterosexuals, perhaps some of the above questions can seem a bit humorous, or even ridiculous.

Consider the plight of the homosexual couple below, and the children.

Besides sexual preference, what other areas of stereotyping, prejudice, and/or discrimination might gays encounter?  Should a gay couple be allowed to legally adopt a child?  She gays be allowed to marry under the rule of law in the United States?  Do gays confer the same legal rights as someone who is heterosexual?  Why are they separate?  Should they be equal?  Why or why not?

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